I just realized I was bi like two months ago (literally during pride month lol). I grew up in a pretty heteronormative environment, with homophobic parents and mostly straight friends. So I feel like I knew exactly how to notice and understand my attraction to guys, but I'm still unable to spot or fully understand how my attraction to girls works (I'm a girl). I just wanted to know if this was normal when you're coming to terms with your bisexuality??
100% normal! It’s been a year for me (although I’d known for a while but a year ago is when I finally decided to admit it to myself) and I still don’t fully understand it. You learn more with each day passing.