I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over two years now and we’ve both known I’m bisexual ever since we dated but recently I can’t help but think about being with another woman? I think it’s because I’ve never had any experience with women before and I suppose I’m just curious about it? But I feel like a cheater for even thinking about this bc i genuinely do love my boyfriend and I feel like he would be really hurt if I told him this bc I already know I’m into women so why even think about it?
I’m the same. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I’ve never been with anyone before him. I figured out my sexuality while being with him and thus had no chance to experiment. I know exactly how you feel.
First off, you’re not a cheater nor a bad person for thinking about being with women. You’re attracted to women, of course you’re gonna want to have that experience.
I don’t know your boyfriend personally, but mine understood. I think as long as you’re clear they’re just thoughts, he’ll be okay.
Then you could have a discussion about possibly having an open realtionship for a while so that you could explore? If that’s something you’d be into?
Anyway, you didn’t really have a question, so I’m not sure what else to say, but reading this reminded me of my situation so much I wanted to answer and let you know you’re not alone and that your thoughts are completely okay and normal.
I mean women are SO BEAUTIFUL how could you not want to be with them, you know?
-mod Annie (I gotta start signing off again, man)