Veing a bi girl dating a leabian feels so alienating sometimes. Not bc of my gf, she's amazing, but so often we get called "a lesbian relationship" or relationships like ours seem so few and far between it makes me feel… invalid? Not gay enough? Idk, i keep trying to tell myself I'm gay and in denial but I'm absolutely not and my attractions havent changed
Don’t be afraid to speak out when people address your relationship as lesbian, because even though it’s not your job to educate people, you’ll feel better than you would by bottling it in.
I’m sorry about this. Bi erasure is a heck. Your attraction to men does not invalidate your attraction to women