Category: Anonymous

I knew I was bi because I can’t get the …

I knew I was bi because I can’t get the nails on my pointer and middle finger to grow as long as the rest of my nails no matter what I do 🤷‍♀️

hahahahaa I feel your pain dude

Hi! :) I need more bi/queer positiv blogs to f…

Hi! 🙂 I need more bi/queer positiv blogs to follow, could you or some of your followers recommend someting? Some aesthetic blogs would also be great if anyone knows anything. Thank you so much! 🙂

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i wish i had bi friends because despite me com…

i wish i had bi friends because despite me coming out (as bi) 5 days ago and the people i told being supportive, i still feel alone, like i've finally opened the door of coming out and now idk where to go next because i have so much to process but nobody to talk to idk

good job dude!!!! coming out if a lifelong process but it’s really hard to come out to your friends sometimes even when you know they’ll take it well. and i’m not fully out of the closet yet so i think out followers can pitch in on this better

-mino

I know this doesn't necessarily deal with…

I know this doesn't necessarily deal with my being bi, but i have a crush on a boy(18) who's two years younger than me(20) who I know likes me back, but i don't feel comfortable telling him my feelings or dating him because i think it's too big of an age gap. Should i try to get over this feeling of discomfort or the boy?

yeah that’s definitely too big of an age gap considering that you mature a lot in 2 years when you’re younger. i think that you should try to get over your feelings for him and try talk to him if he asks you out because a relationship with a big age gap could snowball into being unhealthy

-mino

ugh I like my friend so much shes most likely …

ugh I like my friend so much shes most likely bi and like she's kinda been hinting it but she's so amazing and funny and all that shit omg I want to be with her

talk to her! communication is the best option rn

-mino

Hi, I really love your blog. But I just recent…

Hi, I really love your blog. But I just recently saw a post you made in order to boost someone selling LGBTQ+ positivity shirts. I went on their website and there was a shirt saying "Boy, Girl ¿Por que no los dos? ". There was no indication that he had roots in a spanish speaking country. As a person of color that does have roots in a spanish speaking country, this is honestly so hurtful. And this is also very indicative of white privilege. (1)

It is things like that, that make people of color feel alienated in the LGBTQ+ space. And as one myself, I feel that way now. I just wanted to let you know because you have been very helpful and seeing this really makes me sad. 😢 (2/2)

Hi! I’m another person of colour and I’m not latine so I had absolutely no idea. thank you for notifying me! and you’re absolutely right about white LGBT people appropriating people of colour’s cultures for their own benefit

-mino

Hey, it's entirely up to you what you pos…

Hey, it's entirely up to you what you post, but I have to say that for me a post about how a someone some people see as a bi icon "doing it for the attention" (big negative bi stereotype) does not contribute to me feeling more valid or secure as a bisexual (which I thought was the idea of your blog). The post instead made me feel sad and anxious 🙁

we’re so sorry! ^^ i’ll delete that immediately

Hi, after growing up thinking I was straight, …

Hi, after growing up thinking I was straight, at 20 I started falling for a girl. We've now been dating for almost a year but I'm still having trouble coming to terms with my sexuality. I love my girlfriend more than anything but I constantly feel like a fraud, it took me so long to start figuring things out, and I'm not sure if have yet, and I still struggle with labelling myself as bi, do you have any advice?

Hi!

I understand what you’re going through. I’ve also figured out my sexuality kind of late compared to others, especially since you usually hear these stories like “I’ve known since I was in the womb! I came out of the womb holding a pride flag!”. Which, you know, that’s great, but it can make you feel kind of bad for not knowing right away.

And you know what? It’s okay you didn’t know right away. It’s okay it took you some time to figure it out. For most people I know, including myself, we all had this sort of a *moment* that we were like….oh….I like this person of the same gender…well…this is new. 

That moment happens at 6 for some, and it happens at 20 for others. Both are equally valid! 

And I honestly think if you go back in time and look at some of the things you did as a child, you’ll probably find traces of your sexuality shining through here and there. And don’t freak out even if you don’t, that doesn’t make you a fraud.

TL,DR: It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to figure out your sexuality. We get asks from people in their 40s who have just figured it out, and they’re all equally valid. 
I bet you and  your gf look cute together! x

-Mod Annie 

Hi! So I sent an ask a while ago but it must h…

Hi! So I sent an ask a while ago but it must have gotten buried. It was mostly about how I was afraid my parents (mostly my mom) would be rude and homophobic if I came out and how I was scared to come out to my family (not even my friends know). But tonight I was driving home with my sister after seeing Love, Simon and I just kinda told her and she was completely accepting and ok with it! I'm still probably not going to tell my parents anytime soon but I'm thinking of telling my best friend.

we got to this late but i hope it goes/went well! and it’s good to hear that their reaction to love simon wasn’t negative. i hope eventually you’ll be able to come out if you want!

-mino

I'm currently watching a korean drama and…

I'm currently watching a korean drama and I have a huuuugeee crush on the main male character, but even bigger one on a girl that's a secondary character so I'm literally DYING when I see one of them and what I mean is that BEING BI IS THE FUCKING BEST PEOPLE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Sending love to my bi folks 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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