Category: Anonymous

BDE (bisexual dick energy)

BDE (bisexual dick energy)

it’s what we all aspire to have

-mino

bi identity (bidentity)

bi identity (bidentity)

this anon has big dick energy

-mino

i think anon asking ab the tomcats and drags a…

i think anon asking ab the tomcats and drags and does are asking like do you need to be gnc in order to be (for example) tomcat.

yeah you do because those terms are by themselves- about being gender nonconforming

-mino

MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAD OUR FIRST KISS!! I&rsq…

MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAD OUR FIRST KISS!! I’m just really excited and wanted to tell someone so that’s all:))

HELL YEAH

-mino

Twink/bear etc apply to all mlm, as long as yo…

Twink/bear etc apply to all mlm, as long as you're using it in the context of loving men (e.g.: saying "I'm the twink in the relationship" when ur in an m/f relationship would be wrong, as would saying "im her bear" etc etc) – a bi guy

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Are there terms like tomcat, stag, and doe for…

Are there terms like tomcat, stag, and doe for bisexual enbis and men?

i’m not sure? i know bi men who use terms like otter/twink/bear etc so perhaps it’s a mlm thing in general?

-mino

You can’t be bi and butch, obviously -a …

You can’t be bi and butch, obviously -a lesbian

ye, bisexuals and lesbians have their own ways of expressing gender. i think i should have worded my answer better- there are terms to express being a gender non-conforming wlw for bisexuals as well as there are ones for lesbians

-mino

Hey so I've kind of been identifying as b…

Hey so I've kind of been identifying as butch for a while now, but I've recently been told that bis can't be butch? Is that just a lesbian thing? I don't want to go around saying I'm boyish, but I don't know what to call myself if not a butch bi…?

hi! butch is a lesbian-specific term, but bisexuals also have a rich history with identifiers that is often erased. i personally identify as a tomcat

tomcat – a gnc bi woman/fem aligned person who like presenting more typically masculine, but also changes their presentation from time to time
stag – basically a tomcat, but sticks to presenting more masculine
doe – i think this is the most recent term? but this is an equivalent of femme (any does feel free to add on)

-mino

don't be mad by me asking but i now ident…

don't be mad by me asking but i now identify as pan and seeing this blog makes me feel confused so can i unfollow without insulting you? i'm really sorry

ofc! <3 that’s totally okay and i’m glad you’ve found a label that fits

-mino

Hey, do you know any queer owned online stores…

Hey, do you know any queer owned online stores that sell pride flags/paraphernalia? Preferably ones that ship in inconspicuous packaging. I'm planning on coming out to my family soon and I want a flag for my room, but I wanna support a queer artist rather than buying off a questionable Amazon site. Do you know anything like that?

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