If you’re under the LGBT spectrum, or are of a heritage of colour (including if you’re white passing) you miiight have noticed that LGBT spaces are often white, and racist and spaces of colour tend to be very cisgender and heterosexual. therefore the need comes for a space for us to feel safe.
– be a person of colour
– be LGBT
that’s all! here’s the invite link: https://discord.gg/wyxfp3K
I got to make out with this really hot guy and a really hot girl both last night, so I’m really just living my best bi life and I wanted to share with someone who could understand
first, i have a crush on a gay boy. now i like a straight girl. wTF
welcome to the suffering bisexual squad
Hey, just wanted to say that I no longer identify as bi, though this blog really helped me understand myself better and accept that I'm not straight. You're really doing an amazing job here. I wish every wonderful bisexual out there a lot of luck and I love you guys, it has been an honor ❤️💜💙
i’m SO happy for you!!
I really love it that you say that we should just take the label we're comforteble with. Other tumblrians are like, you should identify if you feel that way or forbid certain labels and that makes me just uuuugh
I know! it’s such a toxic mindset honestly
hey! if you identified as a lesbian before realising you’re bisexual, that’s okay! if you identified as pan, poly or gay before realising you’re bisexual there’s nothing wrong with you. you don’t have to have everything figured out from the go- and sexuality can be fluid! the bi community’s always going to be there to help out people who are questioning their sexuality regardless of how long it takes you to figure things out
Is it ok if I consider myself bisexual AND pansexual? Like does that make sense, if I feel like the two terms are both valid to describe myself? Bc I feel like I can use them flexibly.
oh definitely. i know someone who uses pansexual and bisexual as a label. it’s upto you for what makes you feel comfortable
i convinced my family to let me wear a suit in my brother's graduation party and though i managed to argue against their "why do you want to dress like a man??" while still hiding my bisexuality, my brother keeps making jokes (that in his mind are harmless) calling me a lesbian ugh he feels so comfortable being homophobic and it just reminds me that they would be horrified if they truly knew who i am, every time he jokes about it i just want to scream "I AM BI LEAVE ME ALONE YOU BIGOTED PRICK"
i’m so sorry yikes?? suits ARE peak bi fashion
I'm a dude who is bi, but not really making a big deal about it. I just see it as a part of me, like my fingernails or (large amount of) arm hair. But I absolutely love your blog! I have no issues being bi, and don't search bi positivity but I love your blog! <3
I knew I was bi because I can’t get the nails on my pointer and middle finger to grow as long as the rest of my nails no matter what I do 🤷♀️
hahahahaa I feel your pain dude