Category: mod mino

asks are open again! a lot of asks got buried so if yours hasn’t been answered in the next 2-3 days feel free to resend it

-mod mino

I recently came out as bi, only to a close friend who is bi and my cousin who is also bi. I have never been in a relationship with anyone bc the people in my life made me not really trust people. I don’t know if I want to come out to anyone else bc a lot of my family is homophobic. My mom is someone who thinks bi people aren’t gay enough but doesn’t have a problem with gays. I guess my question is, am I really bi even though I have never been with anyone? But I can’t help my feelings…

you’re still bisexual even if you’ve been with;
-only one gender
-two or more genders
-no one at all

Good vibes! I followed your advice from a few months ago and told my boyfriend of 7 years that I'm also attracted to girls. He was 100% okay with it, like he didn't even sound surprised or curious or anything, just very natural and I felt safe. Now I have to work on my internalized biphobia, but it's so good to have him by my side while doing it and not feeling like I have to hide a part of me from anyone anymore ♡ thank you SO much. You have no idea how important your blog is!

<3!! i’m so happy to hear that!

Am I bi if I feel sexually attracted to two genders but one WAY more so than the other, and can't feel romantically attracted to my own gender because of internalized biphobia? Is this internalized biphobia that keeps me from loving another woman something I can work on?

you’re still bi! some bi folks have a 99% attraction to one gender and a 1% attraction to the other, they’re still bisexual though

-mod mino



Listen I’m bi as Heck and as much as I love girls, I also love boys? Boys are amazing and pure and liking boys is a wonderful feeling? I never see a lot of posts talking about cute boys so

Some Boy Aesthetics™ I’m in love with include:

Their tired grins? Have you seen a cute boy grin when he’s tired? Life Changing

Sleeves rolled up to forearms is all good and Well but also when they have Sweater Paws in their hoodies or jumpers? Makes the tallest of them seem so smol? I’m lov?

When they run their hand through their hair and it sticks up in places and it looks So Good

Collar Bones

Soft pudgy stomachs they absolutely make me melt

When ya boy gets flustered A++ Bonus points if he giggles Boys giggling is Everything

I think this is like the first positive post about boys that isnt to do with a celebrity for ages and it is actually super nice to read????

(1/2) Hi there! So I read the faq links about internalized biphobia and I didn’t see anything quite like what I’m experiencing so I’ll give it a shot… I think I’ve mostly come to terms with the fact that I’m bisexual, and I am able to recognize it as a valid sexuality finally, but I still feel sort of icky about it? Like I just don’t feel like my attraction to the same gender is as pure and lovely as my attraction to the opposite gender.

(2/2) I know deep down that that’s not true, but every time I even come close to accepting myself and possibly coming out, I get disgusted at myself for these attractions. I’m sure this is probably because of the way I was raised to think about LGBTQ+ relationships, but even with that acknowledgement I can’t get these thoughts out of my head. Any advice?

hey! our FAQ links are quite a mess rn and we’re still working on them. and internalised biphobia develops in a multitude of different ways that may not be the “same.” and the way i experienced internalised biphobia when i was figuring things out sounds very similar to what you’re experiencing

i just wanted to tell this to someone and you are so nice and this blog is awesome! yay to bisexuals all around the world

<33 bisexuals are freaking awesome regardless who we are

When you can’t decide between hair dyes. So you Bi both!


omg this is brilliant

-mod mino

I'm female and have a male fiance. I love him and we're getting married. I like him more than any girl in the world. Am I still bi?

definitely, you’re still bi even if you’re in a committed relationship

So, I’m AFAB nonbinary and bi, with an attraction to girls and boys. Whenever I have a crush or just think someone’s really gorgeous looking, I say I’m gay, because I’m technically not a wlw or mlm and I’m technically not hetero. Is this okay for me to do?

i think that’s upto you to decide tbh? like do you feel comfortable